Sexuality, Essential oils and Aphrodesiacs

There is a controversy about essential oils and sexuality.  I do not find that essential oils have the kind of effect on sexuality that some companies claim they do.  A lot of time is spent by drug companies looking for a female Viagra or a natural male one.  I feel this is a miss-step. A truly resonant relationship is Viagra in and of itself.  The inability to have a healthy consummation or orgasm is an indication of a deeper issue of armoring, or an issue with the lack of resonance in the relationship itself, or perhaps a hormonal or physiological issue that should be addressed.  Aside from the very few people who truly have a physical impediment, most use of Viagra is unnecessary and seriously overused.  When you see many of the absurd claims in the Viagra spam’s that flood my mailbox it is no wonder that we have lost the ability to make real contact sexually and emotionally.  Both men and women are often unsatisfied and few are able to communicate to their partner about what is actually missing, indeed they are not even sure themselves.  The ability to achieve orgasm is due to a variety of factors too detailed to go into on this website.  One factor that is important for comfortable sexuality, is the lack of nervousness and anxiety.  Nervous contracted energy is more likely to conclude in a climax than an orgasm.  In that sense, essential oils may be able to help aid in the creation of a more expansive and relaxed state.  In that more relaxed state perhaps, you will enjoy an enhanced communication and trust with your partner.  More open communication, will facilitate a surrender on the part of both partners. Full surrender is absolutely necessary for a healthy and resonant relationship.

This of course presupposes that you are in a resonant relationship that will allow for that kind of trust. 
I created Sweet Bliss in order to address the issue of relaxation. This is needed for women to put us out of our heads and more in our bodies. To allow ourselves to be swept away in the moment and to become more in touch with the autonomic function of our bodies.

For more on a healthy sexuality please go to the American College of Orgonomy site
Marla Shertz Wilson CBBT, ATTr, DiPh